When you struggle to apologise, then you have to deal with the spirit of pride. Many people keep saying their spouses do not know how to apologise and if at all they do, they do it without feelings attached. Remember, “Prevention is better than cure.’’In fact, for some, it is more painful and demeaning apologising to a younger person even if they are aware that they are wrong. He continues by saying: “But now I know better, that it is the mature person that apologises in a dispute.’’Do not see whoever apologises as the weaker person. With this training we are preparing them for their spouses and society, so that, they can live happier lives.

Source: The Guardian January 05, 2020 03:11 UTC